Bhaijaan, baaji

[eemo]

i dont know what its like in other cultures, but certainly in the pak culture, the use of 'bhaijaan' and 'baji' are very important.

I know the quran stipulates that one should show respect to elders, but is the 'bhaijaan' , 'baji' thing a part of it? or is it something that is just inherent in pak culture?

[Tassneef]

Originally posted by eemo:
i dont know what its like in other cultures, but certainly in the pak culture, the use of 'bhaijaan' and 'baji' are very important.

I know the quran stipulates that one should show respect to elders, but is the 'bhaijaan' , 'baji' thing a part of it? or is it something that is just inherent in pak culture?

EEMO yeh cheez sirf hamare culture mein hi nahiN chalti
turkish bhi aik doossre ko Izzat se
AAbi Jaan (Bhaai Jaan) Abley(behan ya baaji) keh kar mukHaatib karte haiN aur agar Dost kaha jaye t mard aapass meiN Arkaadash (Yaar) kehte haiN .
baqi cultures ka mujhey nahiN pattaa

Kissi ko zzaat aur ikHlaas se mukHatib karnaa Ibadat ka hi aik Hissa hai ..bcs Izzat-o-Ehteraam jahaN ho wahaN bohaat si BaddiouN se najaat milti hai aur Amman ki aur Etemaad ki aik Fazaa hamesha qaim rehti hai...iss lyie yeh Cheez agar kissi culture ka na bhi Hissa ho to bhi Izzaat-o-Ehteraam ko mal'hooz-e-Khatir rakhna chahyie
aap Doossre cultures ki baat to akr rahe hain keh un mein yeh cheez nahin paai jaati lekiN un Cultuires meiN inhiN wajoohaat ki binaah per kitni buraiyaaaN aur kamzoriaaN bhi to numaiyaaN hogai haiN

lekin aaj agar un Cutlutres meiN amman hai to sirf iss wajahs e keh unki Sfarati aur Political aur etc etc Policies meiN Ehteraam aa bhi qaim hai ....kissi idara ka Officer bhi apne clients ko Aap keh akr ya iklaas se mukhatib hota hai hai aur wo aik doossre ke Martabey ka Lehaaz rakhtey haiN..magar yeh cheezein un mein sirf Oopri Sattah tak haiN
agar iss lyie wo Mumalik kHushhaal hain
magar unki families aur aam culutre meiN yeh cheezein nahIN chaltin iss lyie dekhyie yaahaN koi insaan kHush nahin hai ..sab kucH hai inke pass magar Dil ka sukoon nahin hai..
behan hai to haais e bezaar aur bhaai behnoN se
aulaad apne Maan baap se bezaar aur maan baap Aulaad se kioUNkeh wo cheez jo Anbiaa ne inko sikhaai haiN wo yeh bhool chukkey hain aur uss per ammal nahin kartey !!
Hamaare mumaalik chaahe kHushhaal nahiN lekin haamare dil kHush'haal hai
aik baap agar apne 10 bachon ke lyie ba'mushkil kamaata hai to bhi wo kHush hai aur bachey bhi agar saare kuNbaa ka pait paalna parhey tab bhi kHush hotey hain , isski keya wajah hai
isski wajah yahi bahmi Izzat-o-ehteraam hai !

Izzat-o-Ehteraam ki agar aap ne kaabhi Misaal leni ho t AaN'huzoor (SAW) ki Zindagi ko Misaal ke taur per apne saamne rakh liya kijyie kiouNkeh unhooN nabbuwat se pehle bhi sab ki Izzat hi ki thi aur yahi wajah thi keh Arab ki Jaahil tareen qaum (kuffaar) aap ki bhi Dil se Izzaat kartey theyyy aur yeh izzat-o-Ehteraam hi hotaa hai Jo JahiloN ko bhi Piyaar sikhaata haai !!! Aur wo Jahil log AAP(SAW) se Mohabbat hi kartey they !!!bajaye isske keh wo kehte keh yeh insaan to Sharfat ka aik pakar hai iss se nafrat ki jaye ..nahin balkeh Annhuzoor Saw ke ikHlaas ne unke Dil jeet lyie they


------------------
Waaizo Aatish-e-DauzakH se JahaN ko tumne
Yeh Draiyaa hai keh kHud ban gaye Darr ki Soorat



[This message has been edited by Tassneef (edited June 25, 2002).]

[eemo]

Jazakallah khair for the reply but im sorry, i dont quite follow the jist of what ur saying.