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    Divorce...

    is it possible to divorce sum1 by text
    If u have nothing to do..........
    ...........then don't do it here!!

    -unknown

    #2
    Re: Divorce...

    I heard it was done in India a couple of years ago but was not considered valid.(by the Law and the Mullahs)
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      #3
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      thanks lazy daisy. im confused now
      any1 else have any views
      come on u Allah ke bande!!!!!
      If u have nothing to do..........
      ...........then don't do it here!!

      -unknown

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        #4
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        I think it is, I've read some articles where that happened, but is it right and moral to do that? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
        The grass ain't always greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.

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          #5
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          it has happened to me sara, and im all confused!!
          If u have nothing to do..........
          ...........then don't do it here!!

          -unknown

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            #6
            Re: Divorce...

            OMG.....

            Well... if he divorced you via SMS, then 1) he's a dirty |3astard who has no balls to tell you to your face.... 2) u r better off w/o a jerk like that... i read ur other thread.. i dunno wat to tel u sorry!
            The grass ain't always greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.

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              #7
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              thats ok sara but yr spot on. he is wot u said!!! thanks anyway
              If u have nothing to do..........
              ...........then don't do it here!!

              -unknown

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                #8
                Re: Divorce...

                similar situation... divorce by email

                http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=en...QR=36761&dgn=4

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                  #9
                  Re: Divorce...

                  thanks guppy
                  (taken from yr link):

                  So proof and confirmation must be sought from the husband, and the the divorce should not be regarded as having taken place until after it has been confirmed by the husband. If he confirms it then the ‘iddah begins from the time when he uttered or wrote the words of divorce.

                  but after the text he texted back to me that it has not happened (he had written it 3 times)
                  If u have nothing to do..........
                  ...........then don't do it here!!

                  -unknown

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                    #10
                    Re: Divorce...

                    p.s. these might also be of interest

                    http://www.milligazette.com/Archives...1512200416.htm

                    http://www.rediff.com/search/2002/apr/08sadia.htm

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                      #11
                      Re: Divorce...

                      Originally posted by meeni
                      but after the text he texted back to me that it has not happened (he had written it 3 times)
                      he said he wasn't the one who sent you the text or he didn't mean to send it to you?

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                        #12
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                        gupguppy......sadia had two witnesses and later had proof of divorce
                        i only have a text. i asked him for written confirmation to which he answered "no divorce hasnt taken place"

                        STILL CONFUSED
                        If u have nothing to do..........
                        ...........then don't do it here!!

                        -unknown

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                          #13
                          Re: Divorce...

                          ^ i'm sorry, i haven't read the other thread referred to... if you can divulge it, what exactly did the text message say?

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                            #14
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                            it said i divorce you x 3

                            followed by 2 weeks silence
                            and then he texts back saying hes asked around and divorce hasnt happened
                            If u have nothing to do..........
                            ...........then don't do it here!!

                            -unknown

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                              #15
                              Re: Divorce...

                              Written Talaaq is permissible and so is SMSing or e-Mailing...

                              The idea behind it is that some actions are better than they look...

                              We can fall easily into assumptions...

                              meeni, I don't know what prompted this from your husband, but that Talaq has not happened...

                              The Talaq even through sms or email shouldn't be 'I dvrc u x 3'...

                              It must be a whole sentence written three times fully legible, so at least you know he wasn't drinking with his girlfriend...

                              Secondly, did you talk to him privately and ask him what prompted him to do this?

                              Third, tell him you want a legal document, during the process of which he might think things over a bit...

                              And if things don't work out, then I agree with Sara 516, you may be a lot better off without him...I have seen instances of ladies with 2, 3 and 4 kids find a very nice man to enjoy their life with ...

                              Cheer up...It could be worse...Ask Allah :swt: for help and :insha: He'll aid you...
                              Focus not on who you are but what you do...
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