You can force a handshake, but what can u do when mistrust is that much (because of ur own activities):
http://www1.timesofindia.com/article...?art_id=862839

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Recalling his historic bus journey to Lahore to promote friendship with Pakistan, he said that even at that time Islamabad was preparing for a war on the sly. The then Pakistan Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif said that he was not aware that war manoeuvers were going on behind his back.

"Who was leading the Pakistan Army then. It was today's Pakistan President," he said.
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