mu dikai rasam

[blue eyez]

as there is this rusam called mu dikai guyz giving a gift to their wives, how many of you who are married or getting married are thinking of buying their husband's a gift or brought their husband's a special gift and what was it

[KKF]

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during muNh dikhaayii rasam...relatives/friends/guests give something of value/cash to the bride and the groom...while couple do NOT gift each other...parents do on their behalf!...as far as i've seen from my childhood up until now!!!

[blue eyez]

Re: mu dikai rasam

during muNh dikhaayii rasam...relatives/friends/guests give something of value/cash to the bride and the groom...while couple do NOT gift each other...parents do on their behalf!...as far as i've seen from my childhood up until now!!!

correct me if im wrong ur talking about general wedding families and relitives giving cash, but mu dikai is when the groom sees his wife when she comes to his house and he gives her a special gift

[KKF]

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correct me if im wrong ur talking about general wedding families and relitives giving cash, but mu dikai is when the groom sees his wife when she comes to his house and he gives her a special gift

ohhhh you mean suhaagraat par...ok ok! my apologies!

in India "muNh dikhaaii" usually means the ceremony that takes place before ruKhsati whereby the grooms comes inside the house and saali/saalaas play tricks on him...they see each other for the first time in a mirror ...they are covered with a decorative sheet called maHzar...and someone who sings well recites the sehraa [a poem].

...well, i guess a gold/diamond set would be fine...maiN ne to already le rakkhaa hai lol

[PunjabiRose]

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My mom told me that this rasm was mainly meant for the guy.... that he buy a gift for his wife as "mu dikahi". So based on this I did not buy anything for my hubby. My husband (also clueless about rasms) was told the same thing ... so I was surprised with a gorgeous David Yurman ring So it worked out.

On our engagement, obviously he got me *the* diamond ... and knowing this I also bought him gifts so that later on he could look back and remember i gave it to him on our engagement. I got him cufflinks, 2 cashmere sweaters....and a David Yurman necklace.

Just this past eid ... he took me to see my parents and spend time with them.. my gift to him was a bracelet that matched the Yurman necklace I gave him previously

Other than these things i think the other most special gift i gave to him was I made a photo book complete with captions of his and his friends throughout the years. Photobook of memories. He loved it.

[saimab33]

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I bought my husband a PS3 (gaming system), but gave it to him the day after the wedding, cause I didnt think it was a really romantic gift for our wedding night, lol! He got me a pair of Manolo's that I really wanted!

[goodgirlafia]

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WOW PSP!!! dont you think the PSP will become a "Sautan" ?

[devilish angel]

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i gave my huby a shirt matching 2 my dress for the next morning

[Demilitarize]

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i gave my huby a shirt matching 2 my dress for the next morning

lol good idea

[blue eyez]

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i got him quite a few things but my special gift for my hubby to be is a identity bracelet going to have his name ingraved on it and have a special msg on the back of the bracelet i understand thts mu dikai is what your husband gifts u on your wedding night but i cant help it

[KKF]

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how about a $1 lottery ticket...wedding night is a lucky night so he may be lucky TWICE and may hit a jackpot

[blue eyez]

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how about a $1 lottery ticket...wedding night is a lucky night so he may be lucky TWICE and may hit a jackpot

hahaha yeah he wishes im his big lottery ticket wat more can he ask for

[KKF]

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hahaha yeah he wishes im his big lottery ticket wat more can he ask for

yup...may be prove to be lucky for him...kam Kharch baalaa nashiiN Good Luck

[blue eyez]

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inshallah lol thanku

[sammy342]

I've got my fiance a pen set with the date of our wedding day engraved on it!!!!