i dont believe I would hold this opinion that every guy wants a threesome. We read these recent threads about the guys falling for their fiancee's bhabi or younger sister or whatever, but it is not like every other guy is doing so. The ratio is very very less to generalise. Its just a moral lapse and anyone can be victim of that. Some girls also might feel attracted towards their fiance's friends or brothers or whatever. Its just that guys are more exlpicit maye, in this regard, and so get caught
who says guys are the only ones that have these kinds of fantasies?
Of course women can have such fantasies and there are women who would even encourage a threesome because of their own bisexual tendencies. BUT the same way some women are agains the idea of mmf type arrangements, men can be against the ffm arrangement as well.
^But a fantasy is just a thought.....which may or may not be acted out. And if it's not acted out...assuming that the fantasy is a sinful one...then theres no gunnah in it, is there? I've read that we don't get penalized for our thoughts unless put into action (pun fully intended).
A fantasy is perfectly fine. I'm just trying to point out that not EVERY SINGLE MALE has one. That was all.
I like to admit that i might BE generalizing the desi or any other guys dislike the idea of threesome (ffm). True!. However, i would like to clarify that your fiance/boyfriend might not want to admit it this fantasy of ffm because they know..this will hurt you. Again i am only saying. Yes we can be sensitive to your feelings like that because we love and respect our wives. Again, there is always gray area. Also, i completely agree that this idea of ffm is infact dis-respectful to your wife. There is no if or buts about it.
Did you bother reading anything I said? Why can't you accept that there might be couples out there who ARE comfortable sharing their fantasies whether it's disrespectful or not and know their partner wont judge them? My partner isn't afraid of "hurting" me by telling me, I can be a better judge of that since I know him and our relationship dynamic. I dont care if your mind cant accept that there are couples out there where the partners feel safe sharing their deepest secrets/kinks and knowing they will not be judged (again, I don't care if couples want to have threesomes or whatever, my reason for starting this thread was being angry at the fact that EVERY guy gets categorized as the threesome-wanting male.
So lets cut the "oh, you're being naive and your man is telling you what you want to hear" lines already. kthanks. And what is up with you constantly saying I remind you of your ex? Maybe your ex was naive and you fed her stories to make her think otherwise? There is a reason she is your ex and you are hers, stuff didn't work out.
I don't care what people do or think, my only issue is with people who act like perfect Muslims but for some reason their religion doesn't apply to these discussions and everything is justified because they are men
^But a fantasy is just a thought.....which may or may not be acted out. And if it's not acted out...assuming that the fantasy is a sinful one...then theres no gunnah in it, is there? I've read that we don't get penalized for our thoughts unless put into action (pun fully intended).
I just find it really amusing the same guys throw religion in every other discussion and act all traditional but when it comes to their weird fantasies they resort to calling anyone opposing their views naive and unaware. what a silly way to back up and justify themselves
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