You know what I find disturbing?

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

i don't know if it'll be deleted pal, but here is what i think - when it comes to sax fentessies, you can not speak on anyone else's behalf. you are disturbed when some online troll, even a very huggable troll like noodle mentions it, your fiance would have to be dumb to tell you anything that'll get you cross. he probably likes it with two blonde women that tie him up, make him wear a skirt, and take him for a boatride, but is he gonna tell you that if you ask him? no.

lol, Noodle actually wasn't the one who mentioned it. It was Xtron and someone else. And this isn't about me getting mad at the thought of threesomes. If all 3 people are a-okay with it, what do I care? My beef is with the guys out there who like to make the idea of threesomes "normal" and "every guy's fantasy". That being said, me and my fiance are extremely open and have shared every weird fantasy/fetish with each other but one thing we both will never tolerate or accept is being shared or sharing. That is not even a thing which crosses either of our minds. Just trying to throw this out there for those people that believe EVERY SINGLE GUY is into threesomes or the idea of multiple partners.

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

well, im just pointing out her fiance is a brilliant man who knows when to keep his mouth shut and nod.

Again, this is what I'm referring to. Why the hell cant two people know everything about each other and be open about all their fantasies without having to tweak what their interests are? And why can't there be guys who are just plain grossed out by the idea of being shared or sharing? Pathetic.

How do you know that it does happen M_was_here? I mean who would do and then confess it to his/her friends?

I dont know anyone who has or is interested in a threesome. I'm just saying it is quite common and it does happen. You read about it all the time in relationship/sex columns.

[Doppleganger]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

^ So other than threesomes, anything else goes in your "life" ?

[queer]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

look, there are guys who are grossed out just at the idea of sex with one woman, and there are those that would love to try and do it with a 100 if they could at the same time. but that's not the point i am trying to make.

if you think you can know every dark thought that occurs in your man's head, give it up. no man ever shares everything with anyone, no matter how close you are. if you think he's told you about all his kinks, i say you are mistaken pal.

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

^ So other than threesomes, anything else goes in your "life" ?

Uh, what?

[Doppleganger]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

Well you said your fiance and you are pretty much open to anything other than sharing partners.

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

look, there are guys who are grossed out just at the idea of sex with one woman, and there are those that would love to try and do it with a 100 if they could at the same time. but that's not the point i am trying to make.

if you think you can know every dark thought that occurs in your man's head, give it up. no man ever shares everything with anyone, no matter how close you are. if you think he's told you about all his kinks, i say you are mistaken pal.

Again, you cant speak for everyone. It's unfortunate you never had a supportive relationship with someone who didn't judge you or your kinks.

[queer]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

well i wouldnt be this way if every time i tried sharing my kinkayy ideas with someone they decided to run away. eventually we all learn how much to share, or die alone. :\

[redvelvet]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

Yeah and they don't look at porn either. Nor do they fantasize...for the fleetingest of moments...about the hot girl on TV or in the corner of the room whilst being in a committed relationship. The only truthful statements that men make about their gender are those uttered to their female signficant others.....as they have nothing to lose then....except for maybe their right or left nut. Besides...since both genders are wired exactly the same (pretty much)...one can completely understand and speak for the other. What to do men know about other men? The sheer arrogance of their claims. I mean like....SHEESH!

[Demilitarize]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

RV. I love u.

Yeah and they don't look at porn either. Nor do they fantasize...for the fleetingest of moments...about the hot girl on TV or in the corner of the room whilst being in a committed relationship. The only truthful statements that men make about their gender are those uttered to their female signficant others.....as they have nothing to lose then....except for maybe their right or left nut. Besides...since both genders are wired exactly the same (pretty much)...one can completely understand and speak for the other. What to do men know about other men? The sheer arrogance of their claims. I mean like....SHEESH!

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

Yeah and they don't look at porn either. Nor do they fantasize...for the fleetingest of moments...about the hot girl on TV or in the corner of the room whilst being in a committed relationship.

actually no they dont, and if they do then they are not in a committed relationship.

[queer]

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tlk is surely accumulating a lot of brownie points today.

[Nisha25]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

many/some women have such fantasies too, it's best not to be too prudish about any fantasies that someone might have, when it comes to sex i think we can be a bit easy going especially when you're in a committed relationship. "decent men don't do this or women don't think in this way....", i try my hardest to not judge someone harshly just b/c they have a certain fantasy. who in this world is normal? and what's the definition of normal, every time i meet somebody that seems so perfectly put together they do something that some people might consider shocking.

btw, m_was_here, correct me if i'm wrong but weren't you the one that started the "fetish" thread so what's wrong if a guy or a gal has a threesome fantasy....

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

No man, I am honest here. Ask Niks, I dont watch skimpy movies, dont know the names of bollywood actresses. Only actress I like (Sandra Bullock, and my wife knows it) is not because of her hottness (as she is not) but because of her voice and acting.

[redvelvet]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

actually no they dont, and if they do then they are not in a committed relationship.

I'm on neither side, TLK. SHEESH!