You know what I find disturbing?

[M_was_here]

Guys who generalize the idea of threesomes as if EVERY SINGLE GUY has those fantasies. Do they ever think not all guys are like that? And most guys, esp. desi guys, would NEVER want to be shared with another girl and instead of jumping for joy at the chance, they'd actually be offended and would question the relationship?

I HATE when I read or hear "Oh, all guys would jump in at the chance" OR "all guys fantasize about the chance to do that". That is absolute BS, and I speak on behalf of my SO when I say that. If someone wants to question that or call it my "innocence" or "naivety", they are clearly the ones in the wrong and are looking to justify it. I think many of those girls which actually allow one to take place are either: a) really stupid b) enjoy the idea themselves or c) feel obligated to be okay with the idea, esp. because some guys out there make it out to be some common understood fact. =/

And of course there is the religious/cultural aspect but we aren't going there with this. Next time a guy says any of the above lines, just smack his head. Kthanksbi.


p.s. Sorry for another inappropriate thread but I've been reading this from quite a few places and it drives me crazy! Just want to hear from the guys and what their thoughts on this are. Please no trolling (that's for you Noodle Uncle).

[queer]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

in before delete.

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

You think it'll be deleted? Urgh. Mods, please dont delete it. You can edit it out if I said something inappropriate but I really want the guys on here to give their honest opinion based on their own beliefs or what their friends etc think.

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

There are lots of myths associated with what guys fantasize about and what not. There might be some truth to some of them but rest of them are just figment of some twisted mind's imagination.

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

There are lots of myths associated with what guys fantasize about and what not. There might be some truth to some of them but rest of them are just figment of some twisted mind's imagination.

I agree. But you agree that not EVERY single guy would jump at the chance of a threesome and most certainly not every guy would ever fantasize about it let alone actually doing it.

[blackforest_360]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

I think it has passed the minds of men, even if for a fleeting second. But I'mma kurri, menu ki pata

[Niksik]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

I think I know more "normal" desi guys than abnormal ones.

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

I agree. But you agree that not EVERY single guy would jump at the chance of a threesome and most certainly not every guy would ever fantasize about it let alone actually doing it.

I dont know about a guy would jump at the chance - as in such scenario, all 3 parties need to be ultimate beghairat and its kind of hard to find 3 beghairats at the same time ..

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

I think it has passed the minds of men, even if for a fleeting second. But I'mma kurri, menu ki pata

I dont think so, at least not when they are with someone they respect and love deeply. I know some people may say "that doesn't mean he can't think about that" but I think it does come down to how much you respect and are possessive about your partner. Any man who has deep respect for themselves and their wife would never want to be even TOUCHED by another person sexually, let alone letting them do so in front of their wife.

[queer]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

i don't know if it'll be deleted pal, but here is what i think - when it comes to sax fentessies, you can not speak on anyone else's behalf. you are disturbed when some online troll, even a very huggable troll like noodle mentions it, your fiance would have to be dumb to tell you anything that'll get you cross. he probably likes it with two blonde women that tie him up, make him wear a skirt, and take him for a boatride, but is he gonna tell you that if you ask him? no.

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

^ your signatures should be "rung main bhung"

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

I dont know about a guy would jump at the chance - as in such scenario, all 3 parties need to be ultimate beghairat and its kind of hard to find 3 beghairats at the same time ..

Ditto. And aside from it being insanely beghairat, it unfortunately does happen and sometimes because all 3 beghairats want to do it. I just wonder how often men actually ponder or think about this. Obviously not every guy does but why the hell has it become so common nowadays to even talk about such things? I think if my guy ever brought it up (with a guy or a girl) I'd walk out right then and there.

[queer]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

well, im just pointing out her fiance is a brilliant man who knows when to keep his mouth shut and nod.

[TLK]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

How do you know that it does happen M_was_here? I mean who would do and then confess it to his/her friends?

[Doppleganger]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

3somessss...

* OH what were we talking about? MMF or FFM???