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    does everything really end after marriage?

    We all know about the various jokes about shaadi barbaadi etc. but apart from that i have heard from a lot of people that i wanted to be this or do that but i got married.
    So is this really the case? Why is marriage to blame? Do u lose yourself personally ur dreams n such?How many of u have experienced or heard about things like this?

    #2
    Re: does everything really end after marriage?

    dude , if you marry the wrong person, who'll need you to change your life upside down instead of complementing it, yes. (i assume you are a guy, since gs girls' wedding worries only extent until their lehngas and shyte.)
    Simple ain't easy.

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      #3
      Lol no I'm a girl & I'm done deciding my lehnga n all haha.

      I have the same view that it all depends on ur partner & mashallah my fiance is extremely supportive and fun loving. But I'm the first in my frnds to get married and they all talk about it like its all over and you just can't chill or hang out or have fun which i think is so not true.

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        #4
        Re: does everything really end after marriage?

        Sure single life ends, and a different life begins. As with every life changing decision, it effects you as a whole and changes you as a whole.
        I'm sarcastic because it is the body's natural defense against stupid.

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          #5
          Re: does everything really end after marriage?

          There will be some changes and you do best in accepting those. Most people cannot keep up their social routines from their social life as a single. Thats what I have seen
          Procrastination at its finest .. Thats me =)

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            #6
            Re: does everything really end after marriage?

            Originally posted by sscrayzee View Post
            We all know about the various jokes about shaadi barbaadi etc. but apart from that i have heard from a lot of people that i wanted to be this or do that but i got married.
            So is this really the case? Why is marriage to blame? Do u lose yourself personally ur dreams n such?How many of u have experienced or heard about things like this?
            If those dreams end, either you didn't want it that badly enough in teh first place, or you just married the wrong person. Majority of the time, if dreams are abandoned, it's becasue of the 1st scenario....and marriage takes the blaem for it.
            The grass ain't always greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.

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              #7
              Re: does everything really end after marriage?

              I won't agree . Well half the time I use to spend on wondering about other women , now I can spend learning may be java .
              -- Nauman --

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                #8
                Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                i doubt if you will get straight and honest answers here. we GSians are too snob for that.

                in terms of hyper romanticism, yes, even if it doesn't end, does diminish. maybe because usually we are tired of pretending to be extra sweet and caring and giving all the time, and sop it finally. married life is a practical life. Your role is changed into a responsible spouse from a pampered beloved so obviously it gotta change. but fanciful and romantic people will always wallow and lament.
                Let the Sea be my mother, and the Moon my father;
                I will swim with the mermaids forever thereafter....

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                  #9
                  Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                  I am so scared of what you describe as happening.

                  On the one hand I want to find ' the one' and settle on the other hand losing my amazing life now of freedom and socialising and coming and going as I please and my friends - really scares me!

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                    #10
                    I doubt it.

                    I lost track of a few friends after marriage but majority stayed pretty close. In fact they're husbands also became a part of that circle.
                    Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames. ~ Rumi

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                      #11
                      Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                      How old are you?
                      I believe in dragons, good men, and other fantasy creatures.

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                        #12
                        Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                        Originally posted by Reha View Post
                        In fact they're husbands also became a part of that circle.
                        *their
                        Look at your signature, now back to mine, now back at yours, now back to mine. Sadly, your signature isnít mine.

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                          #13
                          Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                          Nice going correcting a mod!
                          Say no to 'islamofascism'..

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                            #14
                            Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                            i dunno, depends on who you marry and how the whole ordeal is arranged.

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                              #15
                              Re: does everything really end after marriage?

                              I agree with Sara... a lot of times if the dream dies its because the person didn't want it bad enough to make it work and they blame the marriage.

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