One of my really good friends from many years, recently broke up with me. Why you may ask?
I have been talking to her on a daily basis for over a month to help her get through some personal issues. We hangout physically too often... after a while it kind of died down cuz either I was busy or she was.. she kept reaching out a few times to hang, but I declined cuz either I already had plans, or I was busy.. busy meaning, well I dont want to get into that, but I will say, there is something in my life going on which ties me up sometimes but no one knows to what extent who else is involved, that is for my knowledge only.
anyway, she started getting frustrated and stopped reaching out to me. I still called, texted periodically. I come to find out that me trying to talk to her wasnt enough.. if we cant meet on her terms, then nothing else matters.
i reached out and confronted her, and she broke our years worth of friendship over this.
what did i do wrong. Pls tell me, cuz i dont want to make the same mistakes again. I dont understand why this is such a big problem to not be friends anymore
I have been talking to her on a daily basis for over a month to help her get through some personal issues. We hangout physically too often... after a while it kind of died down cuz either I was busy or she was.. she kept reaching out a few times to hang, but I declined cuz either I already had plans, or I was busy.. busy meaning, well I dont want to get into that, but I will say, there is something in my life going on which ties me up sometimes but no one knows to what extent who else is involved, that is for my knowledge only.
anyway, she started getting frustrated and stopped reaching out to me. I still called, texted periodically. I come to find out that me trying to talk to her wasnt enough.. if we cant meet on her terms, then nothing else matters.
i reached out and confronted her, and she broke our years worth of friendship over this.
what did i do wrong. Pls tell me, cuz i dont want to make the same mistakes again. I dont understand why this is such a big problem to not be friends anymore
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