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    Abba's condition for wedding

    My Abba made it a condition for me to marry a Pakistani Muslim woman. This is better.

    That I have accepted, to stay within our culture.(Islam)

    But marrying a non-Pakistani Muslim, my father has accepted that too as last resort.

    #2
    Thanks for the info man.
    Grizzly bear

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      #3
      Yeah I just talk about anything.

      But my parents wants to have strong connections to Pakistan still.

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        #4
        how old are you??
        happy happy happy... happy happy happy

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        • MujtabaIK
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          I am currently 28 years old right now.

        • MujtabaIK
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          I am currently 28 years old. But I have mellowed down over the years.

        #5
        My parents were too strict in this regard. We live in the Netherlands. My brother was never happy whenever my parents pushed him to marry this or that cousin living in Britain or Pakistan. I understand him. I never liked that idea either. Eventually he met a lovely Chinese lady. They married and afterwards he told my parents. It was difficult for them to accept this marriage, but it helps that she is Muslim en by now they have accepted her.

        I don't understand why for many Desi parents only Desi life partners are acceptable as a marriage partner. And waht if someone isn't a believer anymore, why should that person still have to marry a Muslim?

        Personally, I wouldn't have minded to marry a Muslim who isn't Desi. As a male, my brother could do this and still get away with that. I'm glad someone in our family did, it's time for a change and a more open life in our family. Hoping that his marriage will bring that in our family.
        Well . . .

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        • MujtabaIK
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          My abba and ammi has forbidden me to marry an Indian Muslim woman. And personally I never will.
          Or a Bangladeshi woman.

          The cultural differences are too extreme.

          Same goes for Muslim women from the Arab world.

          Just marry a Pakistani woman that is what my Ammi and Abba advised, and I agree with them wholeheartedly.

        • MujtabaIK
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          Personally I would not this arrangement if it was my son. But hey, every family to their own. My father strictly said a Pakistani Muslim woman and I accepted it.

        • MujtabaIK
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          I am not asking to marry your cousin. That is stupid, although this is not wrong.

          You should marry a Muslim woman from your community/country.

        #6
        Currently I am 28 years old. My older brother Mustafa will get married soon

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          #7
          He is a Chemical Engineer

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            #8
            Personally better to marry within your own culture.

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              #9
              I made a promise to my father I will never play video games again.

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                #10
                Never culturally North American, or because the North American women want to look like prostitutes.

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                  #11
                  Yes I do want to help my country-Pakistan one day.

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                    #12
                    Well finish the Political Science Honours Degree first.

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                      #13
                      1) Political Science Honours Degree
                      2) Legal Administrative Assistant Diploma
                      3) Environmental Engineering Degree

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                        #14
                        Well try Environmental Engineering again at the age of 30 or 31

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                          #15
                          When a person goes to Hell, a person's face becomes very ugly.

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