I need advise on behalf of my friend...and no bashing please.... here her side of story goes...
" it started 4 years back when i was 32... before i start i want to give a little background... i belong to a very good nobel family... educated, good looking and doing a very good job. Got married at age of 20 and having 2 kids aged 14,13 now... i started working 8 years after my marriage as my husbamd lost his job and never found one again till now... this thing made him complexed and we used to had fights infront of kids over petty issues... 4 years back i was going through extreme official stress dufing some reasons and had to interact with a colleague for help. He made an issue out of it and we used to had daily fights about why i contacted him over calls and texts... he used to see my fon n gone thru msgs even there was nothing wrong except official issue discussion..but he made the hell out of it.. i was working plus i used to help kids with studies and used to do other house chores still he never gave me respect or acknowledged me.. being revengous i started talkinv to one of my other colleagues who had a very positive persobality.. long story short we became very good friends within few months.. we became companions.. in last 4 years we used to talk 24/7 thru texts emails etc. Had met outside workplace many times. Exchamged so many precious gifts... he was married as well and had a kid too.. his wife was working too. A better job then both of us but she is an overaged ugly lady... its not my statement heard it from many other people and then got to see her too.. we got so much involved in each other, literally forgot the world.. my husband became more doubtful and bad to me... he kept on telling my family about it that i may have someone in my life but i possess a very religious impact everywhwre . No one beleived him... me and that person reached to a point wjere i asked him if i cud take divorce and he can do secret marriage bcuz i was very fearful of being in an illicit relation.. but he refused... he said he hated his wife and we had an unsaid commitment of staying away from our spouses physically emotionally in any way.. 6 months back he told me his wife is pregnant.. since that day i feel like im empty handed. I lost control over me. Started taking drugs.. had an overdose on sleepong pills.. this all lead my family to dig out my fon.. one of my brother gone thru my msgs as one of his friends works in an sensitive institution.. and life become so darkest for me. My brother asked me to take divorce and give up on my kids and go with the man i was in relationship with.. i approached the guy and asked him for this thing. But he refused right away. And asked me to mend with husband and mend with brother.. i felt like im empty handed... i lost all respect infront of my maika and husband.. i lost crediblity.. tgough all of tjem said they forgave me but i feel so shameful and small.. i cant accept the fact that i was so easy to be left alone for him.. his 2nd child born.. it seems he moved on.. please if somebody can advise me anything so i wonf feel myself most worthless and shameful ugliest person in the world...
" it started 4 years back when i was 32... before i start i want to give a little background... i belong to a very good nobel family... educated, good looking and doing a very good job. Got married at age of 20 and having 2 kids aged 14,13 now... i started working 8 years after my marriage as my husbamd lost his job and never found one again till now... this thing made him complexed and we used to had fights infront of kids over petty issues... 4 years back i was going through extreme official stress dufing some reasons and had to interact with a colleague for help. He made an issue out of it and we used to had daily fights about why i contacted him over calls and texts... he used to see my fon n gone thru msgs even there was nothing wrong except official issue discussion..but he made the hell out of it.. i was working plus i used to help kids with studies and used to do other house chores still he never gave me respect or acknowledged me.. being revengous i started talkinv to one of my other colleagues who had a very positive persobality.. long story short we became very good friends within few months.. we became companions.. in last 4 years we used to talk 24/7 thru texts emails etc. Had met outside workplace many times. Exchamged so many precious gifts... he was married as well and had a kid too.. his wife was working too. A better job then both of us but she is an overaged ugly lady... its not my statement heard it from many other people and then got to see her too.. we got so much involved in each other, literally forgot the world.. my husband became more doubtful and bad to me... he kept on telling my family about it that i may have someone in my life but i possess a very religious impact everywhwre . No one beleived him... me and that person reached to a point wjere i asked him if i cud take divorce and he can do secret marriage bcuz i was very fearful of being in an illicit relation.. but he refused... he said he hated his wife and we had an unsaid commitment of staying away from our spouses physically emotionally in any way.. 6 months back he told me his wife is pregnant.. since that day i feel like im empty handed. I lost control over me. Started taking drugs.. had an overdose on sleepong pills.. this all lead my family to dig out my fon.. one of my brother gone thru my msgs as one of his friends works in an sensitive institution.. and life become so darkest for me. My brother asked me to take divorce and give up on my kids and go with the man i was in relationship with.. i approached the guy and asked him for this thing. But he refused right away. And asked me to mend with husband and mend with brother.. i felt like im empty handed... i lost all respect infront of my maika and husband.. i lost crediblity.. tgough all of tjem said they forgave me but i feel so shameful and small.. i cant accept the fact that i was so easy to be left alone for him.. his 2nd child born.. it seems he moved on.. please if somebody can advise me anything so i wonf feel myself most worthless and shameful ugliest person in the world...
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