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    Corner Room Question - Between Brothers

    since there's no corner room I'll ask the question here as it is related to family and relationships.


    So, I just want to know to what extent guys/men normally share private things with their brothers. I have this particular question to men:

    Suppose, your brother emails you pictures of nude/semi-nude women, what would be your reaction?
    Is it normal for brothers to share these types of things with each other?

    I want to know how you would handle this situation or if it's a nonissue, etc.


    Hope to see some replies.

    #2
    it depends to be honest... my bros r really shreef so i have to be careful wat i say infront of them . while one of my friend.. his cousin sends his bro forward porn even . so really its upto the character of the bros and the environment in the house.

    oh if my bro sent me nude stuff then i would be shocked and i would say this is not gd after all its a sin.... i dont doing guna but i dont want my bros to do guna (sin)

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      #3
      CurruptAngel,

      IT all depends upon the relationship between you and your brother.
      How much you know about each other? you treat each other as younger and older brother or like good friends? Age difference also plays a very major role, etc.


      I do not have blood brother so i cant really coment .

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        #4
        Not much emailing between brothers, unless it is something interesting.

        And then it depends on relationship. I know two brothers who used to watch porn movies together. And then others who dont talk any thing informal, They talk only on need to talk basis

        I have quite open relationship with brothers but anything vulgar and out of taste is not tolerated in our household. Be it language or physical.
        Bazinggaaaa ....

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          #5
          Waleed so you mean you'll commit sins but won't tolerate if your brothers share theirs' with you ?


          kewlsolara I know it depends on a person but I wanted to know how Guppies would react in this kind of situation.

          Code_red

          <<I know two brothers who used to watch porn movies together>>

          ^ *eek* Now that is quite disgusting...so, is it normal for brothers to watch porn together ?? I'm not sure if you guys are getting my questions...I wanna know what relationship brothers have with each other usually. Like among sisters, sharing information about their personal life is very very rare and usually they don't talk about these topics...I wanna know, in general is it the same between brothers or different?

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            #6
            ^ Have you watched indian movie "Silsala" (early 80s ). There exist brothers like that but rare. Normally people are not that much frank with brothers.
            Bazinggaaaa ....

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              #7
              No I haven't watched that movie...I may have but I don't remember watching it..

              Thanks for your input...

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                #8
                hey CA, ive got two cousins who are brothers and they are very much like that.. i mean totally frank about their personal lives.. they know every habit of one anothers.. its amazing.. sometimes im scared to tell one of them a secret cus i know the other one will find out! hehe.. and yes they do share perverted jokes..

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                  #9
                  oh... and i just wanted to add, my lil sis and i know pretty much everything bout each others lives.. it just depends, i know sisters who never share anything, but i have my sis and two other lil girls and we know everything bout one another... most of the time..

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                    #10
                    ^ that's very interesting....Me and my sister are very close but we almost never talk about personal stuff with each other...we don't watch R rated movies together or discuss about guys....I mean, we just don't feel comfortable sharing that kind of info(btw it's the same with most friends ). So your case is surprising to me :-) do you guys feel comfortable watching movies that have adult content together ?? actually, it's kinda cool that you guys are so frank with each other..

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                      #11
                      ^ really? thats really suprising... yeah me and my sister talk about guys openly with one another.. we dont even notice the age gap.. hmm and yeah we watch movies together (im the naive one though.. shes quite mature mashallah)

                      yeah the guys are really close.. it really depends on the family structure.. i cant type long posts!

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                        #12
                        actually.. i have two other friends (one is 15 and the other 20 and neither of them have sisters) and the four of us know everything bout one another.... funny thing when i went back to pak, my cousins would individually come and tell me everything as well.. but not share things with one another... well not so much in detail...

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Code_Red:
                          Not much emailing between brothers, unless it is something interesting.

                          And then it depends on relationship. I know two brothers who used to watch porn movies together. And then others who dont talk any thing informal, They talk only on need to talk basis
                          exactly, it also depends upon the frankness, as if you r more like friend with ur bro then its pretty normal and if you r all wet in respect and fear, its not a way to go.

                          My elder bro is very relegiousand i do respect him a lot, I can not htink of sharing such stuff with him but on the other hand my younger bro is more like a buddy and while watching a movie together we often dont pass such scenes.
                          Zindagi key safar mein guzzar jatey hein ju muqaam
                          wo phir nahien aatey! wo phir nahien aatey!

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by CurruptAngel:
                            No I haven't watched that movie...I may have but I don't remember watching it..

                            Thanks for your input...
                            I am surprised, that you have not watched the movie. It was a flop in india but block buster outside india
                            It is commonly beleived that it is a true life story of indian film industory's three supper stars. A very good film indeed

                            Sorry for bieng off topic
                            Bazinggaaaa ....

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                              #15
                              Like a lot of guys said, depends on your relationship with your brother. There is no normal. Some are very reserved, others are totally frank with each other. I have a brother 2 and a half years younger and we used to fight all the time, but we were kinda close too,, ina cute sort of way, like we would fight all the time, but we both cared for each other. But no we werent close when it came to private stuff. we used to be on our best behavior while together in someone else's presence, wen it came to naughty stuff or private matters, but that all has changed now with age. I,m 25 and hes 23, so we are both grown ups, he smokes in front of me. When in presence of other close friends or cousins, we are pretty much open, not to each other directly,, but to other cousins or friends. But yeah, we are closer now, than we were before. And the scenario u mentioned, where one brother sent porn via email to the other,,, well I wouldnt be surprised. its pretty normal, if not very common.

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