Dear Member Dilse

[kashmirigirl]

Dear member dilse
After a good night's rest and some pondering on what life is really about. I have come to the realization that my harsh behavior will not serve to accomplish what I set out to.
I have come to terms with the concept that no matter how hard I try, no matter how much time and effort I manage to exert towards reform, I shall accomplish nothing until and unless I am able to enlist the aid of the party that I am attempting to benefit.

And so, dear member,
I shall offer my apologies for my ignorance of yesterday

I have seen the light.

The light my friend, is a subway train at the end of the tunnel. A locomotive with no sense of judgement for it's own good. A powerful piece of machinery that thunders on it's way with no regard for what may come in it's path. Or no remorse at what it has left behind.


[This message has been edited by kashmirigirl (edited June 02, 1999).]

[dilse]

DEAR KASHMIRIGIRL(moderator)
Allah jab mauf kar deta hai to banda ke kiya haseeath..mera dil bilkul saf hai...aur ap ke kiya hal hain...thanks

huzoor aapka bhi ahtraam karta chaloon
idhar say guzra tha soncha salaam karta chaloon


dil...dilseee

[This message has been edited by dilse (edited June 02, 1999).]

[kashmirigirl]

My last response on the subject….my intention was to point out somethings…. though it did not go as planned. But, we learn best through experience.

Funny isn't it?
How you respond when the shoe is on the other foot.
Dilse je…you couldn't tolerate one post that came down on you, came back with more and wanted the culprit banned/removed etc. This was one post…we've had members who write offensive remarks many times, make personal attacks many times and are warned many times. They have the choice to adjust their behavior or not…and deal with the results.

Second part

We often write things in order to express our opinion and also to garner a response, both intentionally and unintentionally. The response attained can be both positive and negative.

What we can do as a member is accept how what we do affects others.

We can change or apologize for our conduct which offends…while continuing to debate our opinions. That is a responsibility for all members--- senior, junior and moderators. But, that is what I think….and not necessarily what every other member does.

[devuchka]

KG - this really is an apology for Dilse's ignorance than yours. I read your reply with interest and marvelled that in this gupshup world of politically correct buffoons and barney-like idiots, at least someone has the courage to post on their own terms - and speak their mind.

Everyone here seems to be operating on the "You scratch my back, I shave yours" principle ... I thought your reply was refreshing. It may have snapped some of the little fantasy world ... you didnt owe that apology - regardless of what Rubiyas and Dilses of the world (and god knows we have a little too many of them) think or say.

Dilse:
> mauf kar deta hai to banda ke kiya
I believe you should've said "bandar" but I'm sure thats what you meant. BTW, next time you read a she'r behind a rickshaw, please spare us. Thank you.

Dev.

[MNI]

Devuchkay dude, someone has to set you straight. You have no life. You just go about your dada-geeri without meeting a real challenge.

What did dilse do to you? He was absolutely right in demanding an apology from kashmirigirl. We are all nice and 'thweeth' people here. Don't spoil the phun.

Dilse bhai: please don't mind this devuchka guy. He is just starving for attention.

By the way I really like your nick, because I liked the filum dilse. Are you as sensitive and kind as the filum is? I also like the people here alot. They're all so sweet and really sincere, unlike RAG which is full of depraved ppl like devuchka. They even made fun of someone like Prof. Qadeer Khan.

MNI

[nadia21]

kashmiri girl
ur so coooooool ........god i wish there were more ppl like u in this world.....

plus kashmirigirl ....dilse as far as i know is a very nice person and a very cool minded dude.......

me happy seeing u two friends again
sniffsniff

MNI ji
i wouldnt have put it in much a better manner then u ........thanks dilse is really a very nice person ...

[dilse]

Kashmirigirl salam-wala-kum
I dont think you are making an sense by saying I couldnt handle one post,well madam that was a direct hit on me,can you tell me what wrong i did that you came up with that kind of attitude,the only fault was I misspelled the name of muzna and the other one was I was just asking the admn to execus ironman,as far as addressing the moderator,you should go and complain to choudhry sahib,because he only mentioned that if admn muzna execues him then he dosent have any problem....why should I take the beating infront of the whole world....I think the case is closed,if we keep on going and going,this will never end.....handshake,give a good smile...
allah hafiz

dil...dilseeee

[dilse]

MNI salam-wala-kum..ap ka bohat bohat shukryia...answer to your question is yes..I am a very kind hearted person,bit sensitive..Mni jee ap ko pata hai ke kuch log free may attention hansil karna chata hai..I dont have anything to say....I just pray to god to guide them in right direction...mni gupshup is place we come for a while and talk to each other to have good time.
allah hafiz


dil.dilseee...dil to akhir dil hai kiya

[dilse]

Nadia21jee..ap ka bohat bohat shukryia,how are you doing,how is your nana muna..did you tell them they have a mamoo who always speak with his dilseeeeeeeee....nadia21 your husband is wearing the exact peshawri chappel I have,at time when I cant find my chappal,I go to net to your home page to see if he is wwearing it...just kiding yar....keep in touch

allah hafiz


dil...dilseeeee

[nadia21]

dilse ji
just said how i feel and ur really a nice person http://www.pak.org/gupshup/biggrin.gif http://www.pak.org/gupshup/biggrin.gif

nanamuna doing fine and getting naughtier..
lol dilse ji that was cute .....faisal loves peshawari chapals alot ......every year he has a pair sent to him from pakistan, though i cant seem to find anything unique about them http://www.pak.org/gupshup/biggrin.gif http://www.pak.org/gupshup/biggrin.gif

[dilse]

Nadia21 jee,I dont know why i love it,I have about 8 pairs of peshawari chappal,all different kind,some with big tyre sole(army style) they are good...love to the kids...regard to faisal...apna dulha bhai ko....you know what....chacha ghalib jee na khabi farmaiya tha ke gada kiya janee amm(mango) ka maza....just kidding..choti behan mazak kar raha hoon naraz mat ho na.


dil...dilseeee

[This message has been edited by dilse (edited June 03, 1999).]

[devuchka]

Dilse mimed:

> Kashmirigirl salam-wala-kum
> I dont think you are making an sense by saying I couldnt handle one post,
> well madam that was a direct hit on me,can you tell me what wrong i did
> that you came up with that kind of attitude,the only fault was I misspelled
> the name of muzna and the other one was I was just asking the admn to execus
> ironman,as far as addressing the moderator,you should go and complain to
> choudhry sahib,because he only mentioned that if admn muzna execues him then
> he dosent have any problem....why should I take the beating infront of the
> whole world....I think the case is closed,if we keep on going and going,this
> will never end.....handshake,give a good smile...

KG, I rest my case. As for his last sentence, I'd wear rubber gloves if I were you.

Dilse, "give a good smile" ?? in case you're able to read this (I understand it'll be an effort on your part), look up the word patronizing in a dictionary (thats the big thick book with lots of words in it).

Nadia - spare us, for god's sake, spare us woman !!!

Dev "no handshake" uchka.

[nadia21]

dilse ji
love ur sense of humour

dilse ji dont understand this DEVUCHKAS
problem ......poor thing trying desperately to get attention

[dilse]

Nadia21 jee...shukar hai ke ap joke understand kar gayee...well nadia you know allah har insan ko bara fursat sa banaya hai,aur kuch logoon ko tapka dia..you know what I mean..as it is Msaqib hamara bara bhai na acha formula humko diya hai..wo ye ke just IGNOREotherwise ..........
allah hafiz

dil...dilseeeee

[This message has been edited by dilse (edited June 04, 1999).]

[dilse]

MNI salam-wala-kum
How are you doing..getting ready for your weekend...hot weather.see you later

dil..dilseeee