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    guys....

    u know for one of my classes i was supposed to work on this majorrrrrrrrrrrrrrr final project and so in the beginning of the course me and another person were supposed to team up and then find a third member....

    so it was already settled between person x and me that we were working together.....person x isnt someone i know well but just know...

    last week we confirmed w/ each other that we were still in the same group....

    now we have this class on mon, wed, fri but i dont go to it as i feel like the class is unrelated to the homeworks and isnt useful....so on friday morning i was gone out with my friend and then i was out the whole of friday....i got back friday night.......and when i checked my email the person who was supposed to be in my group had sent me an email, come to class today so we can form our complete group of 3 ppl....

    so i dint really know abt this....and on sunday i emailed person x saying sorry i saw ur email late but i can come to class on monday...

    person x mailed me back saying sorry i dint know what ur status on this was so i already formed a group with 2 more ppl

    i was like heckaaa suprised when i saw that

    khayr i know i shudnt blame x for this and i dont, x said sorry to me and like i just told x dont worry abt it its totally fine....and dint at all say anything or show anything to x...first of all x is younger than me and muslim as well and actually quite a sweet and decent person...i remember x also used to stay for taraveehs every day in ramzan so although a part of me realy felt like killing x i thought jo hona hae ho gya matti pao forget it....and in x's eyes this is prolly justified i can't really blame x i guess...and bottom line is i have always thought x is a nice person and still do but i am hecka surprised at this whole thing i dont think i would have ever done what x did but obviously its also wrong of me to expect that x would put themself at a vulnerable position cuz of me..and obviously its also a case of miscommnication....

    now the prof said that everyone's already formed groups so i have to now just find my own group

    i never went to class and i dont even know who is in the class ab mein groups kaisay banaon the project's already started..i'll go and talk to the prof again tomoro and see what he says...the fact that i dont go to his class is also against me obviously so he doesnt think all that of me either....

    since yesterday i've been thinking abt this and discussed it with a hundred ppl cuz its really landed me in a mess and its weird cuz i feel like this really unfair thing happenned to me and yet i dont think its even justified to blame x.....i'm sooooooooooooooo in a mess and i just feel like

    #2
    hmmmm.. issi liyeh ammi kehti theen naa kay roz school jayaa karo
    - Representing Gadhays of Religion and Pakistan Affair Forums -

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      #3
      u don't need to feel messy, i really don't read long threads but i did and u know try to find some one else or just tell teacher if u can work alone
      Khudi ko kar baland itna Ki har taqdeer sey pehley
      Khuda bandey ko khud poocchey Bata, 'Teri raza kya hai?

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        #4
        Re: :-(

        Originally posted by irem:
        guys....

        u know for one of my classes i was supposed to work on this majorrrrrrrrrrrrrrr final project and so in the beginning of the course me and another person were supposed to team up and then find a third member....

        so it was already settled between person x and me that we were working together.....person x isnt someone i know well but just know...

        last week we confirmed w/ each other that we were still in the same group....

        now we have this class on mon, wed, fri but i dont go to it as i feel like the class is unrelated to the homeworks and isnt useful....so on friday morning i was gone out with my friend and then i was out the whole of friday....i got back friday night.......and when i checked my email the person who was supposed to be in my group had sent me an email, come to class today so we can form our complete group of 3 ppl....

        so i dint really know abt this....and on sunday i emailed person x saying sorry i saw ur email late but i can come to class on monday...

        person x mailed me back saying sorry i dint know what ur status on this was so i already formed a group with 2 more ppl :ee k:

        i was like heckaaa suprised when i saw that :ee k:

        khayr i know i shudnt blame x for this and i dont, x said sorry to me and like i just told x dont worry abt it its totally fine....and dint at all say anything or show anything to x...first of all x is younger than me and muslim as well and actually quite a sweet and decent person...i remember x also used to stay for taraveehs every day in ramzan so although a part of me realy felt like killing x i thought jo hona hae ho gya matti pao forget it....and in x's eyes this is prolly justified i can't really blame x i guess...and bottom line is i have always thought x is a nice person and still do but i am hecka surprised at this whole thing i dont think i would have ever done what x did but obviously its also wrong of me to expect that x would put themself at a vulnerable position cuz of me..and obviously its also a case of miscommnication....

        now the prof said that everyone's already formed groups so i have to now just find my own group :ee k:

        i never went to class and i dont even know who is in the class ab mein groups kaisay banaon the project's already started..i'll go and talk to the prof again tomoro and see what he says...the fact that i dont go to his class is also against me obviously so he doesnt think all that of me either....

        since yesterday i've been thinking abt this and discussed it with a hundred ppl cuz its really landed me in a mess and its weird cuz i feel like this really unfair thing happenned to me and yet i dont think its even justified to blame x.....i'm sooooooooooooooo in a mess and i just feel like
        sorry to hear that.......but you should've been careful :~)

        p.s. i would initiliaze x for you

        String personX = "Friend";
        ...I know that which you do not know. (Quran - 1:30)...... Which then of the bounties of your Lord will you deny?...(Quran - 55:13)...
        Shikra was here.

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          #5
          i always feel like anyways yaar, talk to him..i am sure there are ppl or groups of two..taht should be no problem..just wait till tomarrow and InshAllah it will be fine..

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            #6
            awwwwwwwwww that suxxxxxxxxx its ok it will be ok dont worry acha......ab no sad face
            Mitti ka dhela hai...Yeh ghul jaey ga...

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              #7
              isn't possible to attend the next class and grab a group? :-)

              or you can just work alone? It depends on your interest too.. I personally feel awkward working with group, watch them doing with the heavy rock on my heart cuz they just mess things up for you..
              keep a green tree in your heart and perhaps the singing bird will come

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                #8
                aur maro phuttay classoun say.

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