We often speak about the image that people present, inferring that this is a calculated maneuver. However, I disagree.
I went to a conference in which the concept of identity was discussed. The speaker brought up several points
One that social reality is how an individual perceives himself and this is how they will choose to present themselves. Our image that we present is a snapshot of our entire personality/identity. We have a multitude of snapshots of ourselves for a multitude of social situation work, friends, families, internet, etc. Preserving the impression becomes more important than your own identity…as you strive for social acceptance.
Social disapproval is an assault on your own identity. If you are unable to gain desired social approval you fall into dysfunctional patterns to attempt to gain acceptance.
So why do I bring it up here?
Well we often speak of net Image and personality in a condescending manner…however people are doing only what is normal….but just in a more controlled environment.
The second idea is that need for social approval may/often does hinder people from responding. People may fear being flamed or just that their response isn't good enough. What people don't realize is that just because a response is on the net...forever imbedded in the hard drive...that does not mean they themselves are forever unable to change their ideas or presentation. Also, it is not a defect to admit it.
So what do you think?
I went to a conference in which the concept of identity was discussed. The speaker brought up several points
One that social reality is how an individual perceives himself and this is how they will choose to present themselves. Our image that we present is a snapshot of our entire personality/identity. We have a multitude of snapshots of ourselves for a multitude of social situation work, friends, families, internet, etc. Preserving the impression becomes more important than your own identity…as you strive for social acceptance.
Social disapproval is an assault on your own identity. If you are unable to gain desired social approval you fall into dysfunctional patterns to attempt to gain acceptance.
So why do I bring it up here?
Well we often speak of net Image and personality in a condescending manner…however people are doing only what is normal….but just in a more controlled environment.
The second idea is that need for social approval may/often does hinder people from responding. People may fear being flamed or just that their response isn't good enough. What people don't realize is that just because a response is on the net...forever imbedded in the hard drive...that does not mean they themselves are forever unable to change their ideas or presentation. Also, it is not a defect to admit it.
So what do you think?
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