friedns are not alway'z the same

[nazukh]

hello
i wanted to share this with everybody
when ppl from other countries specially indopak ppl
they become so changed after going to states. i've seen many ppl but couldnt belive it until recently my closest friend have taked to me rudly for her BF
does this always happen and did it ever happen to any of you?

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sophie

[^DerVaisH^]

itz sad to read that ur friend wasn't nice 2 u...did u ask her y she was rude 2 u?...there has to be some reason...

further regarding ur question...never happened to me...but yeah ppl do change [but then there are exceptionz...]...y they change?..God knowz...maybe itz bcoz of the fact that they are in a new country, new environment, new place and with all this new stuff they want to have new friendz...



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[The Fish]

nazukh,
I think it has a lot to do with the person's attitude. Its true that a person goes through a lot of changes when he/she moves away from home. But I always thought ppl value their old friends forever Anyway, I think friendship (or any other relationship for dat matter) is all about give and take. It takes two to make or break it.
Its sad to hear about the sudden change in your friend's attitude. But such things happen...its probably best to move on. Hopefully your pal will soon realise your value and try to mend things. If not- God willing, you'll meet many more.
Good luck and take good care

[sweety_pie]

Originally posted by nazukh:
hello
i wanted to share this with everybody
when ppl from other countries specially indopak ppl
they become so changed after going to states. i've seen many ppl but couldnt belive it until recently my closest friend have taked to me rudly for her BF
does this always happen and did it ever happen to any of you?

That was sad but you shouldn't feel bad abt it if u r a nice person you will find more good friends but, Answer to your Question I think ppl change bcos un ko budhuzmee hojati hay not everybody though...

take care,, SP

[Mr Fraudia]

in the time thatthis person was abroad, how much did you change? people change all the time.. sometime without realizing.

Good friends are those that stay friends even after growing their personalities and perspectives individually and having differences of opinions.

Were you sensitive to this person's evolving personality or did you expect them to be the same person as an year ago?

[nia_khan]

well i know what u r talking about nazuk.. it happens alot of times.. and i dont know if its part of growing or its a phase one goes through.. who knows..
but what i know is no one shoudl come between 2 freinds.. sometimes there are misunderstandings.. i guess its the fact that someone else is sharing part of your friend's life..and she/he might feel more secure towards them.....

Is it part of human nature, that as soon as opposite gender in that sense starts to come in one's life. They do indeed tend to go near them and sometimes they forget their friends. Is that normal, i dont know but it sure is lack of maturity.

People do change if they go to other countries, but those who have very true and pure soul they dont.
BF/GF AStagfirullah i just understand y do people especially muslims go after someone their opposite gender... i understand that one can like someone and get to know them better ...but having different gf...what the heck is that....

[nazukh]

HELLO
WELL I UNDERSTAND PPL CHANGE BUT DO FRIENDS SHIPS ALSO CHANGE WITH TIME?

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sophie