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    Assalam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

    An old man was sitting in the courtyard of his house along with his son who had received high education. Suddenly a crow
    perched on a wall of the house. The father asked the son: What is this?
    The son replied: It is a crow.
    After a little while the father again asked the son: What is this?
    The son said: It is a crow.
    After a few minutes the father asked his son the third time: What is this?
    The son said: Father, I have just now told you that this is a crow. After a little while the old father again asked his son the fourth time: what is this?
    At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the son's tone when he said to his father with a rebuff.
    Father! It is a crow, a crow.
    A little after the father again asked his son: What is this?
    This time the son replied to his father with a vein of temper.
    Father: You are always repeating the same question, although I have told you so many times that it is a crow. Are you not able to
    understand this?

    A little later the father went to his room and came back with an old diary. Opening a page he asked his son to read that. When the
    son read it the following words were written in the
    diary:

    Today my little son was sitting with me in the courtyard, when a crow came there. My son asked me twenty-five times what it
    was and I told him twenty-five times that it was a crow and I did not
    at all feel irritated. I rather felt affection for the innocent child.

    The father then told the son the difference saying:
    between a father and a sons attitude, while a little child he asked me this question twenty-five times and I felt no irritation in replying to the question twenty-five times and when today I asked him the same question only five times, he felt irritated and annoyed.

    "And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, And that you be dutiful to your parents, If one of them or both of them attain old age with you, do not say "uff" to them, nor repulse them, but speak to them a gracious word. And lower to them the wing of submission and
    humbleness out of mercy to both of them and say: 'My Lord! Have mercy on
    them both, as they cared for me and brought me up when I was a little child.'
    " (Quran Chapter 17: Verses 23+24)


    #2

    This was really touching. Thanks, I shall try to apply it in my daily life.

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      #3
      awwwww thats nice... should have a few more gems like that in these forums

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      Shakspeer kheta hai...

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        #4
        You just have to become one, and then all the wisdom will comw to you....although the rational used in the story is not that strong.....
        بِن دانا پانی میں جی لواں
        بِن انَک میں جی نہ سکاں

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          #5
          very well sadia u have learned your lesson pretty fast i am happy for u . nice to c a positive change in you http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/kiss.gif

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          Na teer sae maroo Na talwar sae maroo,
          Mein pyar karna wala houn mujhae pyar sae maroo.
          One & Only.
          Somye

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            #6
            So true how sometime kids are so rough to the parents. Thanks GOD i never did anything to hurt them.

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              #7
              Awwwwwwww...so sweet. Keeping patience when kids ask the same question over and over and over and over and over again is really something. Trust me, I know.
              Life is only a dream.

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                #8
                hmm, nice.

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                  #9
                  http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif
                  ...great eye opener... we forget how our parents have brought us up... and usually try to force our knowledge upon them.. sadly
                  Saints are fine for Heaven, but they are hell on earth.

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                    #10
                    sadiaa sweety u r so cute Mashallah .. nice post stay like that hugz from your baji nia http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/kiss.gif
                    Life became all Gray! But NOW i have decided to paint it all over again.

                    I Tawt I Taw A Puddy Tat

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                      #11
                      shukria..i m speechless.. http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/teary3.gif http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/teary3.gif

                      may God forgive our sins.. http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/teary3.gif

                      [This message has been edited by Qrius (edited June 07, 2001).]

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                        #12
                        very nice
                        Thanks for sharing

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                          #13
                          very sweet

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                          'Hate your enemy mildly; he may become your friend one day' - Hadith
                          'as for those who are slain in the cause of allah, he will not allow their work to perish ... he will admit them to the paradise he has made known to them' - Surah 47:7

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                            #14
                            That was touching. Thanks for sharin'! http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif

                            http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hula.gif

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                            I never hated a man enough to give him his diamonds back
                            :hula: :hula: :hula: and more :hula:

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                              #15
                              Mashallah, very touching story. http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif

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                              Umer, the Pakistani Brain of Austria
                              The Pakistani Brain of the Austria (formerly known as "The Pakistani Brain of UAE")

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