The "Right Time"

[khan_sahib]

I got hint from another thread and have heard this from a lot of people when the time is right they will get married. Could you people elaborate what is the right time especially for you.

[isloo_ki_anarkali]

hmmm..i guess when their parents think its time ...btw KS-sauchi paya..tai banda gaya

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'.......I always knew looking back on the tears
would make me laugh...
But i never knew looking back on the laughs would
make me cry......'

[khan_sahib]

Originally posted by isloo_ki_anarkali:
hmmm..i guess when their parents think its time ...btw KS-sauchi paya..tai banda gaya

Is that definition of "your" right time or you are generalising for people who say this?

[isloo_ki_anarkali]

ummm...my time...kia yaad dila dia aap nay..and i imagine the majority ka time too...its the paki way..

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'.......I always knew looking back on the tears
would make me laugh...
But i never knew looking back on the laughs would
make me cry......'

[khan_sahib]

Originally posted by isloo_ki_anarkali:
ummm...my time...kia yaad dila dia aap nay..and i imagine the majority ka time too...its the paki way..

oh man, if it's the paki way and PST then two minutes means 45 minutes and few seconds. kuch to karo yaar.

[roshnie]

isloo_ki_anarkali is right. In most cases right time is determined by the parents.
My heart tells me right time is when bell rings when you see that someone special but my brain tells me no! & right time is when you are sure this is the one! when you are stable enough & mature enough to handle the responsibility. In most cases parents over rule your heart & brain.

[isloo_ki_anarkali]

Originally posted by roshnie:
In most cases parents over rule your heart & brain.

you put it in one sentence..i was wondering how to do that!


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'.......I always knew looking back on the tears
would make me laugh...
But i never knew looking back on the laughs would
make me cry......'

[khan_sahib]

roshnie and isloo, I thought u people were joking but it sounds a bit serious to me now.

[Why Me!]

My heart tells me right time is when bell rings when you see that someone special

every day i see someone special and every day bell rings but mera waqat hai ke aata hi nahin http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/frusty.gif http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/mad3.gif http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/smash.gif

[waqas72]

find the right person

be mature enough to understand the responsibilites and commitment involved

make a decision and learn to live with it



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..time to eat all your words, swallow your pride..open your eyes..

[khan_sahib]

Originally posted by Why Me!:

My heart tells me right time is when bell rings when you see that someone special

every day i see someone special and every day bell rings but mera waqat hai ke aata hi nahin http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/frusty.gif http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/mad3.gif http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/smash.gif

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Waqas.. It is similar to my question of what is Right and how one would define it?

[Asma44]

The right time to get married is when YOU are mature and ready to marry.

This can't be anyone else's decision as YOUR the one who is getting married, not them.

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Personally I would like to get married before 24. Actually...if I could...I would get married now!!!!!! http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif But I think my mum and pops will find it the hardest thing to face as I am their only child.