She loves me, She loves me not....she loves me...NOT!

[The Watcher]

Ok, how many of you people out there have girl-friends/boy-friends?

Which relationship would you rather be in - GF/BF or falling on your face in love?

I think, GF/BF relations are pretty cheapish, they usually, most of the time, very often and almost always end with sentences like: "Sorry dear, I can't be with you; I have found someone else" - assumably someone better... http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif
BUT on the other hand "fell-in-Love --- and break my head" relationships usually end with sentences like: "jaanu, I can't live without you - or "Ghar waley meri mangni kar rahey hein, kuch karo..." "AaOo ghar se bhagg jain" etc., etc.

Which one is better - love or GF/BF<you never know what can/will happen.

Take it easy.

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*V~V~V*He came, He saw, He conquered*V~V~V*
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-_-_-_-High Priest_-OF-_Painful Truth-_-_-_-

[confused]

yaar.. wedding thread ko dekho cafe main aur sabaqq haasil karo .. warna inhi ki tarah jhagron main time guzray ga .. http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gifhttp://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif

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Never frown, even when your are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

[who---me]

Originally posted by The Watcher:
"fell-in-Love --- and break my head" relationships usually end with sentences like: "jaanu, I can't live without you - or "Ghar waley meri mangni kar rahey hein, kuch karo..." "AaOo ghar se bhagg jain" etc., etc.

So true!!!!!!

http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif nothing to add

both are crap

[sherrybaba]

Originally posted by The Watcher:
Ok, how many of you people out there have girl-friends/boy-friends?

Been there done that
its totally craaap


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kutta ban gaya houn tairay pyar mein
sunnah chahti ho to sunoh
BHOW BHOW!!

[k2pk]

both aspects distract from life until your married...

[^DerVaisH^]

both are just waste of time..
in the end..GF will marry sum1 else..BF will go after some other HOORPARI..
in case of LOVE..the LOVE will deminish within few monthz when u'll have prob in satisfying basic needz of life..then u'll start to hate eachother..and then BK TO BASICZ.."it was a mistake and this and that and i was innocent and ur KAJLA got me in all this TROUBLEZ and she'll say UR cute SMILE was the reason i fall in love with u".

in the end..to make it short!
nothing will prevail..nor BF/GF relationship nor LOVE-RELATIONSHIP..

but then exceptionz exist in every case!
so same appliez here!...



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Whatever limits us we call fate!
Whatever we can't change we call destiny!

[Bharysh]

both mess with yer mind becuz you only follow your heart and forget to think.

[Aleezay]

I don't go with n e of em... Cos one is just a Heartache .. n the other one a Headache .. http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif

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~* I am always in trouble, but it's so much fun. *~

[CoolBlue]

Love is blind but remember 'The street is watchin'. She is watchin' all the time.'

[aphrodite]

oh please, why all the pessimistic responses!
i say go for a relationship cuz there lots of lessons to get out of it. else if you don't know what the lessons are (even from other friends' experiences), you'll just be following what's right/wrong blindly.

as long as you're true to your own-self and most importantly, keep a reality check on things.

[Mem Sahib]

Yaaro sab hi diljale ho???????

Watcher Sahib aap ki soch hi galath hai - One should not choose to decide what type of relationship they want to fall in - or what category?

One should always look for 'friendship' plain and plutonic, you should always aim to build a strong basis of friendship, trust, respect, genuine care, you should be able to communicate with that person, and if there is something special in that friendship then with time it will eventually develop into something more...

That’s the best way to start any relationship... http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif

It worked for me and the Gizz http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/gizzy.gif we started off as friends and then with time things got more serious, http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/kiss.gif

So when you look back at your relationship with this special someone then you will see as well as love - other good things like friendship, trustworthiness, reliability, good communication... and because you have all these things in the relationship then the person you love can be your best friend, soul mate & your lover.

And if your love is true, you’re feelings and commitments are true then you will surely be in a position when you feel you cannot live without them…

Love is not a joke…

Mem Sahib


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~*~* Gizzy Ki Jaano.. *~*~

[The Watcher]

I see everyone is victim of Love, http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif .

Dear Mem Sahib, I just ask for your opinion, I have not given any solid opinion on this issue yet. When I do, "dood ka dood and paani ka paani" ho jaye ghi sari baat.

Love is different for all of us, how we see it, how we behave in it, how we react when love is in danger and how you handle the situation in society like ours, i,e. Muslims. Some of us suceede in love and than praise about it, and some of us become paralyzed victims of love so we disgust it. We the victims of love, try to present love in a negative notation so others like us won't get beaten by such and such incident that we have already experienced.

On the other hand, GF/BF relationships are just plain cheap, they are totally based on sex appeal and nothing more. As I said most of the time these relationship end with sentences like: "I have found someone else..." that sentence could mean allots of things, for example, it could mean: "You are not better for me...." You again might have your opinion about this, which is welcomed and appreciated.

Take it easy.

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*V~V~V*He came, He saw, He conquered*V~V~V*
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-_-_-_-High Priest_-OF-_Painful Truth-_-_-_-

[This message has been edited by The Watcher (edited January 24, 2001).]

[Ali Zai]

Love!
Love!
Love!

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They trusted in us, we trusted in them.

[Jaan Rambo]

i asked her and she loves me not



[This message has been edited by Jaan Rambo (edited January 25, 2001).]