Using demeaning terms and making dasparaging comments in form of locker-room jokes n humor for women in general is quite common among desi men. And the worst thing is that while they do this,they don't even realize that its wrong.... and if some womam mention that out to them they'll make fun of her by calling her uptight feminist and blah blah...
One thing i wanna clear is that that i am not generalizing all desi men here (i haven't used the term "all"
)....and one more thing is that i am not talking about "hot-blooded" Jawaans...if u know wot i mean ;-)...i am talking about mature decent(yea right) highly educated and civilized guys....
I was talking about this to a male friend and was telling him that how annoying it is to hear such remarks from these kinda ppl(ppl whom u really admire...) and he said, "Naik, all guys r like that...no matter how civilized or educated they r..."
Well i don't accept that. I know some really nice guys who do know the difference between humor and sexist remarks...and then i know some bhungees who turn in to really civilized ppl when it comes to such issues...
kher wot i want to ask u guys is that, guys when u make such remarks
do u know wot u r doing? do u do it intentionally??
and if yes do u have a problem wid us women calling u "Sexist Pigs"??
haiN???
ps. and the women who sit next to those guys and do "khe khe khe" on their fazool humor and belittle their own species...all i have to say to u is....EWWWWWWWWWWW YUK!!!
One thing i wanna clear is that that i am not generalizing all desi men here (i haven't used the term "all"

I was talking about this to a male friend and was telling him that how annoying it is to hear such remarks from these kinda ppl(ppl whom u really admire...) and he said, "Naik, all guys r like that...no matter how civilized or educated they r..."
Well i don't accept that. I know some really nice guys who do know the difference between humor and sexist remarks...and then i know some bhungees who turn in to really civilized ppl when it comes to such issues...
kher wot i want to ask u guys is that, guys when u make such remarks
do u know wot u r doing? do u do it intentionally??
and if yes do u have a problem wid us women calling u "Sexist Pigs"??
haiN???
ps. and the women who sit next to those guys and do "khe khe khe" on their fazool humor and belittle their own species...all i have to say to u is....EWWWWWWWWWWW YUK!!!
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