I remember during my days in University in Punjab, our City friends used to refer to some other friends from villages as Desi's and it was not a pleasant thing to hear. But now I feel very proud to associated with desis....words change meanings with context.
I didn't use to like the term "Desi" but over the time my understanding of the word has changed, and I think it's a good generalized term to describe people from the sub-continent.
It's a lot shorter and convenient to use than to say something like "sub-continental".
Cooldude, "desi" is a term which refers to both Pakistanis and Indians and anything which belongs to them or relates to them.
However, I do agree, I would rather prefer to be called a Pakistani. Simply cuz no matter how long, people of both countries have lived together, no matter how many traditions have merged into our culture because of living with them or vise versa, I still think we are two people with a more differences then similarities.
[This message has been edited by Rishmeena (edited August 02, 2000).]
As much as i use the term desi round my friends.....
I accidently blurted it out the word desi while talking to dad about something.....
he got ticked.
Cuz, it's more like.....slang....& doesn't approve of it.
but.......chann's right....it's context is changing...& it basically just deals with the South Asian community overal.
It's hard as it already is generalize all the Pakistanis, Indians, Gayanese (sp?), Sri Lankans, Bengalis, Trinidads, & see what i mean under 1 whole term.
Desi... in other words "fresh from the homeland" ?
or maybe some one from a different homeland, as in Par-desi/Pardes.? and I have nothing against the word.
[This message has been edited by the real AK47 (edited August 02, 2000).]
From what I remember, the term 'desi' origionally comes from 'dhesh' (sp?). It covers the region of the Indian subcontinent. So yes- Bengalis, Pakis, and Indians all fall into this category. Where I am from, its not meant to be used in a derogatory way. For me, I think its like calling someone Spanish, even though they might be from different South American Countries (ie. Mexico, Bolivia..) or Spain.
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