Survey

[Rani]

Azkar Choudary,

I understand that Survey is done for fun and enjoyment but having catagories such as "most Batameez" amounts to name calling and abuse. I have already been told by some of your participants to restrict myself to social forums. By providing this kind of catagories you are providing them with venue to put people (me)down.

If you are doing this laughs there should be no catagory like the one I mentioned above. Most funny, Best debator etc are positive catagories but I fail to understand what you are trying to achieve by introducing negative catagories thereby encouraging partcipants to put each other down.

Please take my name out of the survey as I don't want to be part of your mud slinging contest and called names.



[This message has been edited by Rani (edited March 22, 2000).]

[ZZ]

u would have had no problems if u did not have the female nick. if u have female nick and talk on controversial topics, the tactics to shut up women in most uncivilized people is verbal abuse, often with sexual overtones. racial slurs, well.. that is thrown even to others, for women there are extra abuses. and then in stead of ignoring them u reply. that keeps thing going. it is not their fault. perhaps, in their family, that is the way they treat their women.
u should perhaps dig up comments of mundayya and mr.xtreme to demonstrate how these people easily cross the limits of being civilized. but then that does not help much. they would remain like that.

[This message has been edited by ZZ (edited March 22, 2000).]

[mundyaa]

>>>>>u should perhaps dig up comments of mundayya and mr.xtreme to demonstrate how these people easily cross the limits of being civilized. but then that does not help much. they would remain like that.<<<<<

watch and learn ppl. watch how this coversation is about to be turned into a mudslinging of perheps me and extreme. and when we reply to their baseless acquisitions then all of a sudden rani will feel that her womenhood is being threatened yet more time at this forum.

maybe she should learn to respect others views as well and not start mudslinging of muslims and their teachings and views. its like she wants to play with mud all day long but does not want any coming her way.

anyway mods i think these guyz would be more suitable for the most hypocrytical guppie title. pls dont hurt our intelligence by putting us in the same category. i would rather be a badtameez than a hypocrite.

[sabah]

Rani,
You’re right in one thing – this whole thing is just for fun. And as I understood it anyone can suggest another member’s name for any category. Anyway, your name should be deleted from the list if you don’t like it.

ZZ
>>perhaps, in their family, that is the way they treat their women.<<
Hmmm…and in your families you shut them up by subscribing them to porno sites?? Before crossing the line, you really should think about how ’your ppl’ treat ’our’ women. Ranis is not first or last victim of idiocy – so no need to generalize or posting such comments.

[ZZ]

when i am talking of people, i am talking of them and not their respective nations.

[Mr Fraudia]

Rani

I think the whole thing is just for fun. I got nominated for being a flirt, which I believe I am not, but its just for fun and that is one of the purposes of this joint. So its okay.

The categories were created by members and the voting is done by members as well. I dont see why anyone should feel that its a medium to put anyone down, there are a number of people nominated for badtameez guppie, flirt guppie etc and it seems like almost all of them are okay with it. Now if you want to add some categories, please do suggest, that is something BombayKid and I have been asking for weeks now.

Regards

[Rani]

ZZ,

I completly agree with you on all fronts thanks for being aware of what is going on and describing it so eloquently.

Fraudia,

I think there is a big difference for a man to be called flirt (macho?) and in being called BATAMEEZ. Asking people to vote on something negative about other people is unacceptable. Please leave me out of your fun group. For more understanding of the problem read ZZ's note.

PLEASE TAKE MY NAME OUT



[This message has been edited by Rani (edited March 22, 2000).]

[Bhola#1]

Rani you are just so Batameez
STOP CRYING!!!!

[Mr Fraudia]

Rani

No there is not. Being a flirt is not synonymous with being macho. Or all the chichoras at Devon, Gerard or Jackson Heights would be considered Macho.

Numerous people from my family visit this site, including my wife, brothers, brother in law and cousins, and I can make a case that if people are voting me in as a flirt that it shows negatively on my actions here etc etc etc...but that is clearly not the case and its a non issue for me. Similarly this badtameez thing should be a non issue for you...because if you feel that its not true than who cares what another person says.

btw, a flirt never wants to be known as a flirt cuz that hurts his/her chances of future flirting. (BOSS told me that) heh

[Rani]

Fraudia,

I come on this forum for discussion and exchange of views if some one wants to put down something I wrote they are very welcome to do so. I don't enjoy being called being called names (God knows I have called many by almost everybody on the forum) but instead of fun this survey has turned into a mud slinging match.

I can challenge you that most of the participants on this forum use far worse language then I use and are far more BATAMEEZ then me. These are people who are voting to call me BATAMEEZ.

I think you should read ZZ's note carefully he has explained the whole situation very clearly.

[azkar]

Rani, I apologize if the fun spoiled your day :-(.. The nominations came from people and not me. Admins/Mods/I did not put in a single name.

In any case, your name is deleted and I will make sure it does not appear again. :-(


Azkar

ps: But I thought it was fun....

[Bhola#1]

Thats not Fair , I think RANI is being a BABY .......

sour grapes

[Mr Fraudia]

Originally posted by Rani:
(God knows I have called many by almost everybody on the forum)

I really dont think that majority of the people on the forum even know you let alone bad mouth you. The heated debates in Politics are a different story and the immaturity of those debates keeps me away from that area most of the time.

I think that your claim of being called names by "almost everybody" is a bit far fetched and disrespectful to an average member of GUPSHUP.

[Roman]

Originally posted by Fraudz:
I really dont think that majority of the people on the forum even know you let alone bad mouth you. The heated debates in Politics are a different story and the immaturity of those debates keeps me away from that area most of the time.

I think that your claim of being called names by "almost everybody" is a bit far fetched and disrespectful to an average member of GUPSHUP.

Ditto.

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