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    #16
    navzzz totally agree with your comment, I came across this tiny man in a social gathering, he had a very good command of the English language and was trying to impress people with his knowledge and flowery language and was full of himself. He had nasty oral hygiene and after I while I had, had enough and had to tell him that first things first and if you do not possess the basic sense of hygiene than knowledge of Philosopy and history would not do you too good.

    Captain Obvious most in your group probably got arranged married, most girls at that time went along with parents choice, there is a huge competition for good girls now and modern independent girls are looking for well groomed fit guys so if men in your group are not looking after their grooming, clothing, appearance and fitness than they may not find the choice partners. I dont eat bread and yet I find his bread making skills fascinating. I am not much in soccer but the fitness regime and knowledge intrigues me, for eg he told me that guys who plateu with upper body development, when go heavy with squats the whole body muscle grows.

    Also navzzz had given me great advice about increasing testosterone levels and without excercise IQ and S drive and testosterone levels drop drastically, would people be interested in that knowledge?

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      #17
      Originally posted by Bobby1 View Post
      Also navzzz had given me great advice about increasing testosterone levels and without excercise IQ and S drive and testosterone levels drop drastically, would people be interested in that knowledge?
      Things we have to do for our wives
      I'm either at work, in gym, working in the garden, or in my beautiful wife's arms!

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        #18
        Originally posted by Bobby1 View Post
        navzzz totally agree with your comment, I came across this tiny man in a social gathering, he had a very good command of the English language and was trying to impress people with his knowledge and flowery language and was full of himself. He had nasty oral hygiene and after I while I had, had enough and had to tell him that first things first and if you do not possess the basic sense of hygiene than knowledge of Philosopy and history would not do you too good.

        Captain Obvious most in your group probably got arranged married, most girls at that time went along with parents choice, there is a huge competition for good girls now and modern independent girls are looking for well groomed fit guys so if men in your group are not looking after their grooming, clothing, appearance and fitness than they may not find the choice partners. I dont eat bread and yet I find his bread making skills fascinating. I am not much in soccer but the fitness regime and knowledge intrigues me, for eg he told me that guys who plateu with upper body development, when go heavy with squats the whole body muscle grows.

        Also navzzz had given me great advice about increasing testosterone levels and without excercise IQ and S drive and testosterone levels drop drastically, would people be interested in that knowledge?
        This has nothing to do with the people I associate with and was more of a general response. However, I agree with what you said in a previous post:

        I have seen some of the most attractive, intelligent and financially well off people drown in loneliness due to lack of social tact, I know successful realtors who are really good with people make millions in any given year. Emotional intelligence is far more important than IQ. I had interacted with a Chinese specialist doctor and an Ismaili dentist who were so socially awkward and rude and could not understand the basics about normal life and left such a bad taste in my mouth that I still cringe after years of interacting with them. Interacting with people is a science and no we are not born with those skills, parents, friends, schooling all give us these skills. Harris is an extreme socialiser but to operate at a professional level I am training him. They say we like people who are like us or people who we aspire to be. Professionals change their personal style to match the person they are interacting with. They manage their posture, body language, facial expressions, tone, pitch and WPM to influence people.


        Tell your assassin to aim for her head...because she doesn't have a heart.

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          #19


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          • SID_NY
            SID_NY commented
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            wow very accurate, well put. Thanks for sharing!

          #20
          Originally posted by Bobby1 View Post

          Actually the presenter says that start convo with a simple hello how are you and not over think or try to be super funny and out there and this is something I will take from the presenter.
          I agree with her there but I've a different interpretation of asking wut up or something.

          When someone asks: hi, how are you. Its more cordial and welcoming to have a thorough convo. But when someone uses a quick slang its like saying get to the point and move on so its not that welcoming. Hence the mention of conversation killer
          Attitude is more important than facts.
          "Life is 10% what happens to us..and 90% of how we react to it"

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            #21
            Originally posted by SID_NY View Post

            I agree with her there but I've a different interpretation of asking wut up or something.

            When someone asks: hi, how are you. Its more cordial and welcoming to have a thorough convo. But when someone uses a quick slang its like saying get to the point and move on so its not that welcoming. Hence the mention of conversation killer
            You are partly right, when I train people I ask them to follow the extensive science of mirror and matching, if you are dealing with older professionals than a formal approach is good if you are dealing with whatssup kind of crowd than you use their vocabulary and style.

            https://www.scienceofpeople.com/mirroring/

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              #22
              Just read this, i think its right on money:

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              Attitude is more important than facts.
              "Life is 10% what happens to us..and 90% of how we react to it"

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                #23
                Originally posted by SID_NY View Post
                Just read this, i think its right on money:

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                Depends on what your goal for the conversation is, maybe one wants to wife the subject, establish long term business partnership, develop a friendship than you cant really walk away. I dont really engage in Idle talk. Again the presenter of the video mentioned to focus on the goal of the conversation.

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                • SID_NY
                  SID_NY commented
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                  Yes ofcourse pretty sure the quote was not meant for very close fam or friends
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