Is being nice mistaken for sexual interest?

[Emaan Khan]

yeah well that's the topic the question and then reason i am posting this note. tel me what u think ..guys and girls.....women and men....and te neutral people!!
emaan

[Shpooki]

You know what Eeman, this question has occured to me a lot of times too.
And I think that you're right, often people mistake being nice as a way of getting into someone's pants...So the best way to avoid such a situation is to do what I do. I dont stay around long enough after my good deeds for them to suspect anything...

Thats my theory and I'm sticking to it...

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[This message has been edited by Shpooki (edited October 22, 1999).]

[NYAhmadiX]

That's one more reason for being nice to people.

[JAK]

depends how much nice you are trying to be?

[Nisha]

Well, I think I would substitute sexual for romantic interest, and the truth is, if we are talking with being nice to a desi guy (since I am a girl yes, it may be taken the wrong way but if we are talking Western here, doubtfully. The problem is that sometimes that is the intent so it gives a bad reputation to those who really mean well but alas what can we do ?

Ciao

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U can't expect to have a future unless u let go of the past !!!

[PHOOL(!)]

kidda!?!??!

well people i have a solution ...easy tio follow n very effective......................................... .................................................. .................................................. .............................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .............................. .................................................. ........................................STOP BEING NICE! yup thatz it....itz much more fun n no sexual interests hahahahahaha!
ok wicked people thatz all 4 now...
take care
byez
phool(!)

[Najim]

be nice but dont be nice ...... I mean to say ... be nice but logically or indirectly clear that u are nice to be nice only and nothing more so other person doesn't get the wrong impression. Its fairly easy.