What's A Lady To You?

[Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye]

Ever since i was born!! I've been told to behave like a "lady". Bah! I wonder what they actually mean by the term "lady". Any answers?

[allstar]

In pakistani society being a 'lady' is taking orders (without questions) from men in the family.

Not my family though.

[Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye]

allstar hehehehe.

[Munni]

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Learn to love yourself, then learn to love one-another

[Jaawan]

Not exactly AllStar!!!


Jaawan

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Till next time***K_I_S_S***

[shezi]

o! come on you
do n't you know the answer
roughly speaking " you can n't muck around like boys "

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One Day I want to grow up, but not today please.............
For I am the Keeper of the Keys to the Lost

[kashmirigirl]

Elegant, gracious, polite, charming, a bit aloof but warm, a good hostess, honest, non-gossipy, virtuous and the list goes on….

It means being someone who is above riff-raff and who just by their demeanor commands respect.

Hum say…actually mom’s Tok often..but the best way to be a lady is to follow the example of someone who is one.

and I'd a agee with Shezi..I doubt the boys really want a girl that does muck around.

[shezi]

Kashmiri Gal
this is a great answer . GREAT!!!!
i really respect this answer of yours .
I do .
i am feeling looney to say this but i have just started to respect you because of this reply .
but not all the gals are same .

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One Day I want to grow up, but not today please.............
For I am the Keeper of the Keys to the Lost

[mundyaa]

yup, you got it KG. wish there could be more who actually put these words to practice and not just demand respect for being a woman.
hear hear feminists.
It was beautiful KG.

[Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye]

Mmmmm...
I like the part about following an example

[Naseeb]

I think what our parents are trying to teach us is just to show good manners. I was taught to respect my elders(which I think everyone should), to be polite, to treat others the way I wanted to be treated, and to show kindness to those less fortunate. This has nothing to do with a gender. Nor should it. Good manners and the way you carry yourself tell the world alot about who you are. Remember you never get a second chance to make a first impression.

[kashmirigirl]

I hinted at this but only Naseeb brought up the subject..why do we have to act like a lady/gentleman at all?

Why thank you Shezi that is really sweet of you.

[Kaliya]

humm Lady is
(L)oyal
(A)ffectionate
(D)evoted
(Y)outhful